African Arrival

Jan 6 will remain as one of the craziest most out control days of my life. I awoke at 6AM in Balitmore, at noon I was interviewing at Johns Hopkins and by midnight I was crossing the Irish Sea by air.  I wouldn’t recommend it honestly. By the time I got to London, I was totally fried. It has snowed there the day before and everything was terribly backed up in DC becuase all London flights had been canceled. I nearly missed my flight because I couldnt’ get through the lines. I got the 3rd degree in security between the new shiny hip and  many strange tools one carries in a carry-on to go be a doctor in Africa.  I did though have the amazing blessing of being ugraded to business class. And while that was pretty spectaclar I felt like an idiot because I couldn’t figure out to make the bed thing work or the TV or really anything. But I can say I have now flown first class on an overseas flight. The rumors are true, there is real silverware, free wine and flat beds.

London was beautiful from the air, the english countryside was bathed in white.  My connection went flawlessly and although my flight got delayed a bit on the ground it was a great flight. One I will never forget. I watched the map program every couple of minutes once we hit the Med. Sea wanting to see the coast of Africa as we crossed it. It was beautiful and shockingly different than the coast we left behind in Italy.  I watched the sunset of Sudan and by the time we entered Kenya, I couldn’t sit still with excitement. The last time I did this whole go to a new country/new continent thing on my own I was 19 on my way to Romania. I was considerably less freaked this time around. I got my visa without problem despite the fact I accidentally left my original copy of my yellow fever vaccination in America on my scanner. All of my luggage made it and I was picked up by a kind man named George who took me to the Mayfield guesthouse. The guesthouse is lovely, full of  African art, mosquito nets and people from all over Africa who are passing through. I shared a room with a lovely girl from Ireland who is going to teach in a primary school in the North of Kenya.

I didn’t sleep much but I enjoyed what little I did get. I woke up early since my roommate was on her way north.  Took a shower, felt human and then explored the guest house. We eat meals family style here. The rest of the medical team that was supposed to meet me in London finally made it. Two of them will come to Kijabe with me. While they slept I went to orientation at the AIM office. I also saw Nairobi by day.  The smell is a cross between the humid, thick magic of a Carolina magic and the strange pugant tang that I associte with Bucharest. I am not sure if its a city smell or a developing world smell but it smells like home. Kenya has had two years of drought but its been raining and everything is green and there are many flowers.

Orientation was oddly interesting we talked a lot about the history of Kenya and plans for medical missions here in Kenya. I will write more tomorrow once I reach Kijabe. For now I am exhausted…

Desperate housewives….

Biblical WOMANHOOD????????????????

Correct me if I am wrong but could someone please tell me about a woman in the bible who looked like an American, fundamentalist housewife sterotype?  I can think of perhaps of two Mary the mother of Jesus and Martha.  Mary had a child out of wed lock in a culture that would stone her for it.  (um ok so maybe not like an American house wife) Jesus came to visit Martha’s family and he praised her sister Mary for not cooking dinner but sitting and talking theology with Jesus and scolded Mary for doing housework rather than learning…(not exactly a role model…)

The women that bible speaks most highly of look NOTHING like American housewives: Tamar fought domestic violence, Sarah became the mother of an entire nation/people group, Deborah was a judge and a warrior, Esther was a shrewd politician and a queen, Ruth was a caregiver and the sole  breadwinner (no pun intended) for an elderly relative (she also went and lay in a man’s bed who she was in love with to tell him her feelings for him..),  Rahab was a prostitute who descendant was Jesus,  Elizabeth proved the impossible, Mary gave birth to a child outside of marriage in a culture that would stone her for it, Joanna and Susanna ministered to Jesus, Mary (sister of Martha) listened and discussed theology with Jesus,  Mary Magdalene was a prostitute whose enduring story teaches us about grace and who also was among the only followers who were fearless enough to go to Christ’s tomb after his death, Aquila  made tents and may have been one of the first missionaries, Lydia was a wealthy, successful businesswoman who was the first European known to accept Christ she along with Phoebe were leaders in the early church….

Come to think of it maybe Paige Patterson is on to something.  The women today have indeed lost sense of biblical womanhood.  Could you imagine what the world would be like if every woman who follows Christ actually lived like these women did? (OR a if a few good men did too?)

Could you imagine a woman would shrewdly crush the head of a foreign general (either figuratively or literally, diplomatically)? Or could you imagine a woman so strong and wise that a general refuses to go to battle without her? Could you imagine if there was a woman like Esther who would go before the governments of nations where genocides, other hate crimes or gross human rights violations are happening and convince them to stop? Could you imagine if women would support their elderly, widowed family members like Ruth rather than sending them to nursing homes or griping about them?  Could you imagine if women of the world fought back against violence toward women and children like Tamar? Could you imagine if the women of the world embraced the children born unplanned or unwanted? Could you imagine if women in nations where there is no freedom of religion quietly yet openly worshiped and ministered like the women at the tomb?  Could you imagine if women stepped up as leaders yes pastors, ministers, teachers in places where there is no faith or where faith has died?

How different would our churches be?

How different would our families be?

How different would our world be?

…if every woman got up from the mud of our world that exploits women and their bodies and brushed off the  dirt of centuries of fear and ignorance  hidden in church tradition but lacking biblical substance and embraced her calling…whatever that calling may be from motherhood (yes even the stay at home kind…love ya MOM!) to ministry to beyond.

how desperate our world is for biblical womanhood….how desperate…

The view from ZSR 6th floor on the eve of the rest of my life…

7 years is a long time.

I am sitting curled up in one of my favorite places in the world. The ZSR library on the Wake Forest ugrad campus. Its nooks and crannies and huge windows and high callings have facilitated my studies, my imagination and my dreams for the past 7 years.  It was here I studied for my first real exam EVER, memorized latin poetry, poured over novels, drew out organic mechanisms, took MCAT practice tests, discovered libreation theology, painstaking dissected the New Testament and the Koran and eastern European folklore. I learned EKGs and neuroanatomy on the 6th floor. I learned Rheumatology and Endocrinology over in the new wing.  I dreamed of traveling and medical school and later medical missions.  And like most young women day dreamed occasionally about boys and the future and all that is to come.  This place is full of friendly ghosts that remind me of where I have been, who I am and where I am going. Its not just nostalgia and books that live here but a sliver of my identity and the woman I have become will always find a home here.  Of all the places on the Wake Forest campus I think its the place i will miss the most when I finally physically leave Winston in May.

And that is about to come to a head. Tomorrow it begins.  I submit to the powers that be my residency application. Countless cups of tea, late nights, long hours, books, papers, notebooks, itunes, sutures, progress notes and surgeries.  seven years, six pages of resume and essay, five agonizing standardized board/admission exams, four summers loving Eastern Europe and four babies delivered, three years of med school (1 to go), 1.5 degrees, it all been for tomorrow so I can go get a job somewhere in the United States that wants a gimpy pediatrician to be with a strange love for all things from the Black Sea to the North Pole, a more than passionate obsession with disability rights who is in love with children, Jesus and comparative religion.

up, up and away.

Free Falling

I was sitting on the red sofa in the basement of my house on Wed night for bible study.  I was in my favorite position with my left leg curled under my right one making me corner shaped sitting in the little sofa corner. I was in pain. It was a gnawing, angry, relentless pain that seemed worse than it had a week ago prior to the steroid shot. I was exhausted the pain woke me up several times a night and forced me to change position.  I tuned in and out of the discussion on the temptation of Christ almost startling when my roommate the leader turned to ask me a relgion major related question.  I was physically squirming changing my position every 5 minutes to no avail. In my head a flood gate had failed and my thoughts were swept in a gale of pain and anxiety.  What would happen if I just didn’t want to do this any more? What would happen if I just pulled the trigger and said I want to get this over with it…..What would it cost me? graduation? residency? walking?  What if it went perfectly what would it buy me? No pain? Actually enjoying my day to day life for my last year as a free agent?

As soon as the last prayer had been said I was up the stairs and curled up in my bed with my laptop.  Kaniksha called, I answered and told her what I was thinking.  She pushed me to just do it. I went to sleep (well in theory), woke up and went to school. I sat there on rounds with this torturous hurricane in my brain. In order to do this I would have to break one of my cardinal rules of AMYHOOD. I would have to admit that I was in pain to the point that I did not think I could function at my job or at my life.  I disliked that idea immensely although my dislike was childish it still hurt to have to say that to someone.  SO I sat there with this paralyzing inner monologue and interviewed little children whose inner monologue had landed them in the pysch ward.  As soon I could steal away from post-rounds work I called the PA in Baltimore and left a short, cheerful sounding message on her voice mail. I slid my cellphone in my pocket with a smile. Sure I can try to change this but the odds were so against it working thus there was nothing to panic about. Three things had to happen: A. there had to be a surgery date in the first 8 days of block 6 (Sept 7-Sept 13), B. I had to switch my ED rotation (the only required rotation thus making it nearly impossible to switch because EVERYONE has to do it) and C. have something I can do FOR CREDIT instead in Block 6.   I walked back to the pysch floor confident that I had passed the test.

The PA called me back within 20 mins. I hid in the copy room. It took effort, more than I care to admit, to tell her the truth. My voice wavered a bit but someone by the grace of God I managed to keep a surreal businesslike manner throughout the whole conversation outlining the various pre-operative studies and labs.  She gave me the number of the surgery scheduler who I called and left a voice mail. I e-mailed student services with a bit of tachycardia.  My fellow interns on the pysch floor sent me home early since I had stayed late the day before. As I was leaving I got a completely random and uncalled for  e-mail from the pediatric rheumatologist. I had talked to her previously in the year about doing a rotation with her. It had not worked out. She had been asked to write a review on exercise therapy for kids with arthrits and myositis. She wanted to know if i wanted to do the project. I could most likely get research credit for it.  I nearly melted right there in the middle of the pysch nursing station.  Not only was a research project I could do from it home, it was a first author publication handed to me on a silver platter no strings attached. As I walked outside of the pysch ward I stared at the deep blue of the carolina afternoon with  my eyebrows raised asking GOD what the heck was he doing?

I ran home, laid down on my sofa, tired from not sleeping and the constant gnawing.  I had tried in route  home to call both student services and the scheduler again both had been apparently gone for the day.  I was fustrated. Kaniksha called to cheer me on. Finally at the point I was almost sleep my phone rang at 4:50 and I bolted off the sofa.  Ms Long the 14th has one opening…does that work for you? Holy… its in the 8 day window. Give me till tomorrow. I called student services at 4:55 and demanded a meeting with the Dean for Friday. I got it.  I then e-mailed my class expecting nothing but knowing I had to do this before I saw the Dean. Can someone please, please swicth ED rotations with me? Five minutes later someone volunteered.   The Dean signed off on my swicth, my research elective/leave of abscence for block 6 without so much as a moment of hestitation, in fact he had already done before I even got there on Friday morning.

My parents thought I was slightly manic when I called them…maybe I was a tad bit crazed. Hi Mom, I having a hip replacement on Sept 14 think you  drive me home on Sept 17?  I explained or tried to explain that for once in my life I was excercising some level of self-perservation.   My parents who know me better than most know that this is not characteristic of me…its far to what normal people with chornic pain do. They accepted it although they had a million questions most of which were medical rather than logistical.I had been the one e-mailing and calling the surgery team with my 20 million questions, I was the one who signed the dotted line on the consent forms.  Now in the surreal change of roles I was the one explaining to my parents what to expect.

I’m still not exactly looking forward to it. In fact I’m still sort of terrified but feel oddly at peace with it for the first time since that fateful day in April where the surgeon walked into the room with that knowing gleam in his eye.

On Friday afternoon I headed to Atlanata to visit with friends (including my super, awesome, talented webmaster) and take the Clinical Skills boards on Monday.  I stared at the peds rheum books stacked on my passenger seat, a reminder of the miracle of the last two days.  It rained as I was coming out Charolotte traffic, a blinding sun shower that slowed the resceding traffic to 40 mph.  I stared into the liquid blue and marveled at God’s grace and his occasional firm, gentle pushes off of our mental mountains of pride and fear. And how well he holds us as we fall into whatever ocean stands in the valley.

¹¹ For he will order his angels
to protect you wherever you go.
¹² They will hold you up with their hands
so you won’t even hurt your foot on a stone.

The passage that came to mind…oddly enough it is quoted by Satan terribly out of context in the temptation of Jesus in Luke and Matthew 4 which was the center of the discussion on the red sofa.

Why the world is messed up Part 1

I love this country and only God knows why.

I walked into the pediatric oncology ward today and the first patient I met had a brain abscess of unknown pathogen origin but since she has cancer it could be a very, very bad bug. She was in a room with two other leukemia children one who was questionably neutropenic (no immune system). I was really, really upset. I get the whole limited resources concept. I get the whole this is not America concept but I can’t turn off the little doctor in my head that says this is a way to kill three children for the price of one. We painted their faces and make necklaces and bracelets and it was the only child life (hosp playroom) time these kids get. Their parents make their meals, give them all of their oral meds, wash them, clothe them and do all beside care that does not involve the IV pump. There are no portacaths so the kids get IVs perpetually. I was pretty saddened by the whole thing.

Especially in light of story number two. So ‘Mike’ is 16 and was my bosses’ first patient here back 1994. He has a stricture (a narrowing) of his esophagus. He needed surgery to fix it but he had to grow and there were no surgeons in Romania any way. Finally they found someone to do it after a more than a decade of suffering and being told that there was nothing to be done but wait for death, they found someone. Health care is supposed to be FREE for all children under the age of 18. And by FREE they mean that if you want your child to live the hospital alive after major surgery try a 3000 dollar bribe. That’s more than most families make here a year. And it needs to be in cash and by the way it’s all under the table so the doc will never pay taxes. The missionaries, the boy’s community and his parents have scrimped and saved and raised the funds. The boy survived the procedure and is in the ICU. The only words the surgeon told the mom was the esophagus was dilated before the stricture, we should have done this years ago. The mom has to pay a bribe every time she wants to see her son. 3000 under the table? And the mother can’t even be with her son???? 3000 untaxed dollars in a country where children with treatable cancer die because they can’t pay bribes for isolation rooms.

Don’t get me wrong I know America’s health care system is broken. But at least it is mostly honest. I mean insurance companies are evil but they are upfront about it. I would take truth even it means capitiolism runs health care over corruption running health care any day.

Also this http://www.wxii12.com/video/19854698/index.html watch it… and count the number of time they use the word inspiration or something similar. I know this girl, she is a friend of mine, and she is extremely kind and generous with herself. But I post this because it’s such a good example of America’s idea of disability. I can be a cursed beggar/prisoner of an institution or I can be a poster child for a Disney movie.

God Bless America……and Romania

Good grief. Dear God please tell me there is some happy medium in the world where gimpy people are not martyrs but rather teachers, parents, doctors, lawyers or whatever they want to be when they grow up. And no one finds it extraordinary that they managed but rather find it extraordinary that anyone would think otherwise.

….there are many kinds of freedom, and even more kinds of slavery.

End Rant.