Desperate housewives….
Published by Amy under Jesus on November 11, 2009Biblical WOMANHOOD????????????????
Correct me if I am wrong but could someone please tell me about a woman in the bible who looked like an American, fundamentalist housewife sterotype? I can think of perhaps of two Mary the mother of Jesus and Martha. Mary had a child out of wed lock in a culture that would stone her for it. (um ok so maybe not like an American house wife) Jesus came to visit Martha’s family and he praised her sister Mary for not cooking dinner but sitting and talking theology with Jesus and scolded Mary for doing housework rather than learning…(not exactly a role model…)
The women that bible speaks most highly of look NOTHING like American housewives: Tamar fought domestic violence, Sarah became the mother of an entire nation/people group, Deborah was a judge and a warrior, Esther was a shrewd politician and a queen, Ruth was a caregiver and the sole breadwinner (no pun intended) for an elderly relative (she also went and lay in a man’s bed who she was in love with to tell him her feelings for him..), Rahab was a prostitute who descendant was Jesus, Elizabeth proved the impossible, Mary gave birth to a child outside of marriage in a culture that would stone her for it, Joanna and Susanna ministered to Jesus, Mary (sister of Martha) listened and discussed theology with Jesus, Mary Magdalene was a prostitute whose enduring story teaches us about grace and who also was among the only followers who were fearless enough to go to Christ’s tomb after his death, Aquila made tents and may have been one of the first missionaries, Lydia was a wealthy, successful businesswoman who was the first European known to accept Christ she along with Phoebe were leaders in the early church….
Come to think of it maybe Paige Patterson is on to something. The women today have indeed lost sense of biblical womanhood. Could you imagine what the world would be like if every woman who follows Christ actually lived like these women did? (OR a if a few good men did too?)
Could you imagine a woman would shrewdly crush the head of a foreign general (either figuratively or literally, diplomatically)? Or could you imagine a woman so strong and wise that a general refuses to go to battle without her? Could you imagine if there was a woman like Esther who would go before the governments of nations where genocides, other hate crimes or gross human rights violations are happening and convince them to stop? Could you imagine if women would support their elderly, widowed family members like Ruth rather than sending them to nursing homes or griping about them? Could you imagine if women of the world fought back against violence toward women and children like Tamar? Could you imagine if the women of the world embraced the children born unplanned or unwanted? Could you imagine if women in nations where there is no freedom of religion quietly yet openly worshiped and ministered like the women at the tomb? Could you imagine if women stepped up as leaders yes pastors, ministers, teachers in places where there is no faith or where faith has died?
How different would our churches be?
How different would our families be?
How different would our world be?
…if every woman got up from the mud of our world that exploits women and their bodies and brushed off the dirt of centuries of fear and ignorance hidden in church tradition but lacking biblical substance and embraced her calling…whatever that calling may be from motherhood (yes even the stay at home kind…love ya MOM!) to ministry to beyond.
how desperate our world is for biblical womanhood….how desperate…


(Okay so bear with me… I know I wrote an Epistle for a comment, but I couldn’t help myself): See… this is what I’m talkin about!!!
It’s not that I have a problem with women staying at home to be mothers/homemakers… if so, then I’m screwed. My problem lies in the nerve that a man has to tell me that is my place, my only place, and that I don’t have a choice in the matter. I do feel that being a stay at home mother is a calling, just as being a pastor/deacon/minister/missionary is. But that calling is from God and God alone. Just as every man is not destined to be a mechanic or construction worker (stereotypically what men are “fit to do”), every woman is not called to be a homemaker/wife. And beyond that, my being a homemaker/mother/wife does not limit my knowledge of scripture, and does not silence my voice in the church at large. In fact, I’d argue that being a mother in and of itself lends to a deeper understanding of God’s passionate love for us, therefore qualifying us to speak on areas of God’s nature that men cannot experience (just as men, for thousands of years, have lent their male/Father perspective to us… not a bad thing, but in, and of itself, lacking. Scriptures do say that God created us (both!) in His image, so that tells me that a solely male dominated view of God is incomplete (just as a solely female view of God). We need BOTH for a full understanding of who God is… and no I don’t mean that women tell women who God is and men tell men, but rather a mutual submission (gasp!) and teaching of one another that leads to the whole image of God and His character. Without BOTH sexes being allowed access to the places of teaching/preaching/ministering, our understanding of God will be limited. I just pray that we as a church will stop sitting on our thumbs doing nothing, and finally step up to challenge our leaders to help us seek to understand God fully.
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